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More Than You Want to Know Survey
Chaos:
Heya all! Because I find it hard to come up with things to say about myself in introductions, to get things started I found one of those surveys to use as a template. If you want to use it, too, just copy and paste it into a reply message. Feel free to add or omit questions (or come up with your own introductions. lol.)
Name:
What time is it:
THE FRUITS OF YOUR LABOR( things you can't live without)
Something important on your desk:
When you sleep you wear:
If you could afford it at the moment, you would buy:
Something you don't have a lot of:
If your house was burning and you could only save 3 items what would they be:
MORALS
If there were no side effects, you would enjoy being addicted to:
A time when you purposly hurt someone emotionally:
A time you accidentally hurt someone emotionally:
One person you have killed in your thoughts:
FRIENDS:
Three traits you look for in a friend
Who makes you laugh most often
A friend who you can tell anything
A friend you can got to for advice
The best piece of advice you had been given:
Two closest friends:
The friend who uses most of your energy:
EGO
Your 3 best qualities
Your 3 worst qualities
Describe your Ideal self
A comliment that makes you blush:
You are embarassed when:
The greatest physical pain you ever endured:
The greatest emotional pain you ever endured
Moment you are most ashamed of:
Your best physical feature:
Who/What makes you happy:
Who/what makes you sad:
EMOTIONS
Emotion you hide most:
The emotion you tend to experience most:
The emotion you are feeling most lately:
You have a huge amount of guilt regarding:
When you are angry you need:
When you are sentimental you need:
When you are in love you need:
MEMORIES
One of your most peaceful memories:
One of your most tragic memories:
One of you rangriest memories:
A memory that makes you laugh:
a memory that makes you happy:
LOVE
Something someone can say or do that you find extremely attractive:
Something someone can say or do that you find unattractive:
Two things appealing about people
A personality trait you find appealing:
Your secret passion:
What you enjoy most about having a committed relationship:
RELATING
DO you have a bf/gf if yes who?
What do you find sexy about them:
What drives you crazy (in a good way) about this person:
Describe your mate physicaly:
Describle your mate's personality:
You feel most attractive when:
Favorite thing you like to see your mate wear (clothing wise don't say naked)
What would you like your mate to do more of:
FINALLY>>>>>>
If you had more time alone you would:
If you had more patience you would:
If you could change one thing about your physical appearance what would it be:
If you had no committments what would you be doing:
If you could have one super power what would it be:
If you could start all over....
Chaos:
Name: Ash (aka Chaos)
What time is it: It's just after 9:30pm
THE FRUITS OF YOUR LABOR( things you can't live without)
Something important on your desk: Picture of my family--my life partner, 2 nephews, 1 niece, 5 cats, 2 sisters, and my next door neighbor. All wearing either Santa hats or Reindeer antlers. (Well okay, so 4 of the 5 cats did not have the hats, but hey...)
When you sleep you wear: boxers
If you could afford it at the moment, you would buy: A bigger house.
Something you don't have a lot of: Time! Argh! Too many projects, not enough time. I miss being an insomniac--I got *so* much more accomplished. Okay so I was also really unhealthy but hey...
If your house was burning and you could only save 3 items what would they be: Assuming my family and pets are already outside...my journals, my laptop, and my wallet (having survived a fire that burned down my apartment building, I learned the hard way to make sure that the wallet was accounted for...*cough*)
MORALS
If there were no side effects, you would enjoy being addicted to: Don't know...adrenal ine maybe.
A time when you purposly hurt someone emotionally: I honestly can't think of a time I've done it purposely. I tend to be very...empathi c toward people, so I just don't purposely do that sort of thing (to a fault at times--I was even way too nice to a girl who was literally stalking me for over a year...*shakes head*)
A time you accidentally hurt someone emotionally: I'm sure I've done it, but I can't think of anything off the top of my head. I know I tend to not be serious a lot of the time and I think that's probably hurt some people now and then who didn't realize I was totally joking about something.
One person you have killed in your thoughts: A person who hurt me very badly when I was young.
FRIENDS:
Three traits you look for in a friend: Honesty, humor, and patience (to put up with me)
Who makes you laugh most often: Hands down, Blitzen
A friend who you can tell anything: Again that would probably be Blitzen, though would also include Amanda and Kimela
A friend you can got to for advice: Kimela
The best piece of advice you had been given: To stop living in the past. I can't change things that happened, but I can learn from them and move on.
Two closest friends: Blitzen and Kimela
The friend who uses most of your energy: My nephew Brian. He's totally hyperactive and I'm pretty sure he's exactly who people meant when they said "Someday I hope you grow up to have a kid who's just like you."
EGO
Your 3 best qualities: Creative, Empathic, and Friendly
Your 3 worst qualities: Self-destructive, Low-Esteem, Extremely shy by nature.
Describe your Ideal self: I would like to be remembered for being kind, for being a loving friend, for being a good dad to my adopted kids. I want people to think of me as honest, and fun. And I want to make a positive difference in as many lives as I can.
A compliment that makes you blush: When I was in a show a couple years ago, the reviewer actually wrote that I was "Sinfully Sexy" which was incredibly embarassing and I *still* get teased mercilessly by friends--and still blush horribly.
You are embarassed when: people compliment me. I don't know why, it's flattering, but also embarassing.
The greatest physical pain you ever endured: I was beat up by 4 guys (against just me) and ended up in the hospital for several weeks...
The greatest emotional pain you ever endured: Conversation ender question, so will only say that it involved my father.
Moment you are most ashamed of: I hit a very bad low a few years ago and did some very very self destructive things.
Your best physical feature: I really don't know. I've been told my hair is good, but it's really unruly. I'd have to go with my hands. LOL
Who/What makes you happy: Feeling loved. My Blitzen and my 3 (adopted) kids.
Who/what makes you sad: Thinking about my past.
EMOTIONS
Emotion you hide most: I have two that I hide constantly (though both tend to come out in my writing): Fear and Depression
The emotion you tend to experience most: Doubt
The emotion you are feeling most lately: Doubt
You have a huge amount of guilt regarding: Not being able to forgive some people.
When you are angry you need: to vent, to run or otherwise exercise, or to write (which usually is venting anyway)
When you are sentimental you need: To hug
When you are in love you need: reassurance
MEMORIES
One of your most peaceful memories: watching a sunrise from the middle of a lake on a small boat with just me and mine.
One of your most tragic memories: The fire that wiped out my apartment. I lost almost everything I owned and was unable to save my cat that I'd had since I was 3 years old.
One of your angriest memories: A fight in which someone I trusted defended the person who they *knew* had hurt me very badly, and blamed me for what had happened.
A memory that makes you laugh: I almost got arrested for playing whiffleball (long but amusing story...)
a memory that makes you happy: My first kiss with my life partner
LOVE
Something someone can say or do that you find extremely attractive: Laugh
Something someone can say or do that you find unattractive: Excessive cussing.
Two things appealing about people: Humor and Grace
A personality trait you find appealing: Honesty
Your secret passion: I don't know that I have a secret one. LOL. Writing, loving, living.
What you enjoy most about having a committed relationship: Comfort
RELATING
DO you have a bf/gf if yes who? Yes. Blitzen
What do you find sexy about them: Humor
What drives you crazy (in a good way) about this person: Can't stay mad cuz acts like such a kid sometimes. (Okay, so the same thing could definitely be said about me...)
FINALLY>>>>>>
If you had more time alone you would: go crazy
If you had more patience you would: really don't know, I consider myself to be a very patient person...excep t in traffic. I would get less frustrated in stop-go-traffic.
If you could change one thing about your physical appearance what would it be: I'd be taller.
If you had no committments what would you be doing: Writing
If you could have one super power what would it be: I would want the ability to affect people's moods. lol.
If you could start all over....I'd do pretty much the same things. While there are a lot of experiences I wish I hadn't had, and there are a lot of things in my life that I am ashamed of and embarassed by, but...all in all I like who I've become and all these things have made me who I am. I would say I'd save my sister from the mess her life has become, but the selfish part of me reminds myself that I wouldn't have my kids, who totally mean the world to me.
nicksgal:
Name: Deanna
What time is it: 3:20 AM (now it's 3:59 AM)
THE FRUITS OF YOUR LABOR( things you can't live without)
Something important on your desk: My single insert autograped by AJ and Nick, my laptop, my jewelry box, my printer, a stuffed penguin, and a photo of my best friend and I dressing up in old west clothes (you know the kind at theme parks). There's also a lamp.....
When you sleep you wear: A tank top (either black or white-it alternates every other week), green pajamas pants with Snoopy and Woodstock on them, and light blue penguin socks with snowflake accents.
If you could afford it at the moment, you would buy: My college tutition.
Something you don't have a lot of: *thinks* Time and sleep.
If your house was burning and you could only save 3 items what would they be: Three items means all the people are outside, right? Ummm.... My photos of my best friend, my autograph, my laptop.
MORALS
If there were no side effects, you would enjoy being addicted to: Happiness.
A time when you purposly hurt someone emotionally: I don't think I ever hurt someone on purpose...
A time you accidentally hurt someone emotionally: This year, I reacted poorly to my best friend due to lack of sleep and we got in a horrendous fight. It was not pretty, but everything is okay now.
One person you have killed in your thoughts: My ex-best friend before the one I have now. She hurt me a lot. Or possibly Paris Hilton. ;)
FRIENDS:
Three traits you look for in a friend: ~kind
~enjoyable
~having some trait I admire and don't have
Who makes you laugh most often: My best friend, Kevin
A friend who you can tell anything: My best friend, Kevin
A friend you can go to for advice: My best friend, Kevin
The best piece of advice you had been given: "When bad things happen, you can look bad, you just have to keep going forward, no matter how much you want to run back and be in the saftey of their arms again."
Two closest friends: Kevin and.... Gosh... I'd still say Sarah, but... she doesn't talk to me anymore. :'(
The friend who uses most of your energy: Again, my best friend, Kevin... Such a busy body... ::)
EGO
Your 3 best qualities: Ummmmm....
~I know how to have fun. :D
~I'm nice
~I listen
Your 3 worst qualities:
~I talk to much
~I'm sort of stupid :-\
~I procrastinate a lot
Describe your Ideal self: Someone who has the strength and courage to pick up the pieces of my past and move on with all the lessons I learned through my mistakes and shortcomings.
A comliment that makes you blush: When people say I'm pretty. :-[
You are embarassed when: I do stupid things and don't realize it and no one tells me until later or I do really petty stupid things, like that time I dropped a plate in the dining hall. :-[
The greatest physical pain you ever endured: When I broke my finger in gym class Sophomore year while playing basketball.
The greatest emotional pain you ever endured: Either losing my best friend this past year for a few months or losing one of my friends to suicide in middle school.
Moment you are most ashamed of: There's plenty. I really can't pinpoint one. Probably all of middle school and how I exhuded drama. Yay.... ::)
Your best physical feature: Mmmmm.... I don't know. Everyone compliments my eyes... Or my figure... Thanks... ::)
Who/What makes you happy: Who makes me happy? My best friend, Kevin, makes me happy. All my friends make me happy, really. What makes me happy? Sleep. Sleep and getting to write my stories. That's a dream of mine, to have free time. *sigh* ;)
Who/what makes you sad: My past makes me sad.
EMOTIONS
Emotion you hide most: Anger.
The emotion you tend to experience most: Happiness or sadness... Sometimes loneliness...
The emotion you are feeling most lately: Stress.
You have a huge amount of guilt regarding: Recently, getting sick and missing a lot of school. Generally, hurting all my wonderful friends... Particuatly my best friend. I know, I'm such a horrendous person.
When you are angry you need: To sit in my room and play the Backstreet Boys. Everyone ought to leave me alone. After that, I want Kevin so I can VENT darnit!
When you are sentimental you need: Kevin, because it's usually about our memories.
When you are in love you need: Kevin to gush to. Or my current boy toy to hang off of... Ah.... Love.... ::)
MEMORIES
One of your most peaceful memories: Hmmmm.... The time on the swingset after Junior year Homecoming game. To know I'm liked for just me, as I am. :)
One of your most tragic memories: Either my parent's divorce or losing my friend to suicide in middle school.
One of your angriest memories: Coming to terms with how badly my ex-best friend really treated me.
A memory that makes you laugh: The time Kevin had decorated his Homecoming shirt so pretty and I knocked it on the concrete on accident while it was still drying and it left a hue glob of gold glitter on our square. It's still there, and that's funny. :D
a memory that makes you happy: Most of my recent ones. Probably getting back my best friend. That was the happiest moment in the world.
LOVE
Something someone can say or do that you find extremely attractive: Smile.
Something someone can say or do that you find unattractive: Swear, smoke pot, or take me to underground parties where everyone is high on ecstacy.
Two things appealing about people: ~Kindness
~Their comfort with themselves
A personality trait you find appealing: Anything I don't have really. I'm such a moocher. :-[
Your secret passion: *thinks* Do I have a secret one? Writing and drawing. *shrugs*
What you enjoy most about having a committed relationship: *thinks* I don't know.... Someone to just hold you tight.
RELATING
DO you have a bf/gf if yes who? No... Not right now. I'm a play girl for the time being. ;) My last one was Kevin. Yes... let's all laugh. And considering we have this awful relationship where we're friends and then we're hooking up again, I'll just talk about him... (and Mr. Hot Invisible Man. ;))
What do you find sexy about them: My invisible boyfriend is the hottest man EVER! What I found sexy about Kevin was that he was stable, and yet not at the same time. That sounds weird... :-[
What drives you crazy (in a good way) about this person: My invisible boyfriend... Uhh... That he's invisible... ::) About Kevin.... He's a cutie. Teehee.
Describe your mate physicaly: Invisible! Kevin... Blonde hair, blue eyes, 5'7", sinewy. *nods*
Describle your mate's personality: Very mysterious.... :D Kevin... Flip floppy. He's outwardly strong, cool, and cofident, but has hidden insecurities that only a few people know about. And I know the most. Yay.
You feel most attractive when: When I do? *thinks* I guess when I'm with people I'm comfortable with and they make me feel that way... Oh, that made no sense. :-[
Favorite thing you like to see your mate wear (clothing wise don't say naked): Well, he's invisible so.... Kidding... Kevin, polo shirts and jeans. I dunno why, he's just good looking in them. *nods*
What would you like your mate to do more of: Be not invisible. :( Kevin, be more honest about certain things. Some friends are telling me he's keeping some things from me that he ought to be saying.... Which could start our crazy cycle all over again, so I don't know if it's necessarily a good thing for him to come out and say them... ???
FINALLY>>>>>>
If you had more time alone you would: Take a nap and write!
If you had more patience you would: Be a better person.
If you could change one thing about your physical appearance what would it be: Pretty skin without make up.
If you had no committments what would you be doing: Taking a nap and writing.
If you could have one super power what would it be: *thinks* To control water. That would be cool. *nod*
If you could start all over.... I can't. But if I could. I would be stronger from the beginning and every time my heart shattered, I would rebuild it with my own hands so that I did everything right, instead of handing it off to the next man who could fix it up easy.
That was fun! :D Thanks Ash. (And I finally learned your name, hooray!) Thanks for the wonderful website. :)
Nijntje:
Name: Nijntje (at least that's the name I use on message boards)
What time is it: 19.24 pm
THE FRUITS OF YOUR LABOR
Something important on your desk: In my room I don't have a desk and the one the computer is on, is one for the whole family. So on here, nothing that important.. except for the computer ;D
When you sleep you wear: T-shirt and sweatpants
If you could afford it at the moment, you would buy: a new Ipod with 30GB memory
Something you don't have a lot of: money.. time.. and sleep!!
If your house was burning and you could only save 3 items what would they be: my BSB-cd-collection, a picture of my ex-boyfriend and myself, jewelry
MORALS
If there were no side effects, you would enjoy being addicted to: shopping!
A time when you purposly hurt someone emotionally: right after my (now ex-)boyfriend broke up with me
A time you accidentally hurt someone emotionally: My mom when she had just put our cat to sleep. I was upset, but didn't know how to show it and said some mean things (I was 12 and still feel guilty).
One person you have killed in your thoughts: my father.
FRIENDS:
Three traits you look for in a friend: honesty, empathy and knowing I can trust them
Who makes you laugh most often: my mom
A friend who you can tell anything: Ingrid, who I've known since we were 7..
A friend you can got to for advice: Ingrid, Marijana, Fleur, Alouette
The best piece of advice you had been given: Talk to him one last time, so you can let go and move on.. (I didn't listen to that advice when I had the chance to actually go talk to him, and still feel guilty).
Two closest friends: Ingrid and Alouette
The friend who uses most of your energy: Alouette and Nathalie.. mostly when it's the three of us :D
EGO
Your 3 best qualities: empathic, willing to help everyone to a certain limit and I think I'm not a bad writer ;)
Your 3 worst qualities: Being impatient, sometimes not willing to compromize, not enough willpower to accomplish certain things..
Describe your Ideal self: Someone who has willpower, has empathy, makes other people laugh and can make a small difference in this world..
A comliment that makes you blush: One that a friend of mine gave me: "You have a soothing voice when you sing.. If you'd have vocal training, I think you'd be even better at singing.."
You are embarassed when: I fall off the stairs in the train station.. (did that twice in one week :o :-[)
The greatest physical pain you ever endured: When fell and landed on my already sprained ankle.. :o
The greatest emotional pain you ever endured: When my boyfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me three days after he told me he had seen the cutest house for us to go live together..
Moment you are most ashamed of: not sure..
Your best physical feature: my hair!
Who/What makes you happy: Music and my friends
Who/what makes you sad: Music, seeing how my grandparents are growing old and not able to do certain things..
EMOTIONS
Emotion you hide most: Sadness
The emotion you tend to experience most: Happiness
The emotion you are feeling most lately: Stress!!!
You have a huge amount of guilt regarding: I lied to my (now ex-)boyfriend about huge events.. (and he still doesn't know..)
When you are angry you need: to vent, either through writing, singing or talking to friends
When you are sentimental you need: to vent, either through writing, singing or talking to friends
When you are in love you need: to talk about him and only him, write poems and songs, sing and drive my friends crazy talking about him
MEMORIES
One of your most peaceful memories: My ex-boyfriend and me walking on the beach, with no one in sight, just us and the ocean. No words were spoken..
One of your most tragic memories: When my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, we told his parents and his mom being completely upset and hysterical.. And then the morning after (I couldn't go home in the middle of the night) he sat on his bed, holding my hand and said "I will see you again, right?", while crying his eyes out..
One of you angriest memories: Can't recall one right now
A memory that makes you laugh: So many.. When my collagues/friends and me were so tired that EVERYTHING was funny.. or when one of them said to me "I can't hardly understand what the guy is saying.. he's mumbling.." And then I told her he was speaking Latin (which we both don't speak) not Dutch (we both are Dutch)!!!
a memory that makes you happy: When my grandfather told me he was so proud of me when I got my Bachelor-degree in Psychology..
LOVE
Something someone can say or do that you find extremely attractive: Protecting me from cold, rain or angry people..
Something someone can say or do that you find unattractive: Burp!
Two things appealing about people: their eyes and hands
A personality trait you find appealing: Honesty and not being afraid to say what's troubling you.
Your secret passion: Writing and singing.
What you enjoy most about having a committed relationship: knowing you're not alone in this world.. I know I have family, but having a boyfriend is different.
RELATING
DO you have a bf/gf if yes who? No..
What do you find sexy about them: -
What drives you crazy (in a good way) about this person: -
Describe your mate physicaly: -
Describle your mate's personality:
You feel most attractive when:
Favorite thing you like to see your mate wear (clothing wise don't say naked) -
What would you like your mate to do more of: -
FINALLY>>>>>>
If you had more time alone you would: train my singing
If you had more patience you would: write more
If you could change one thing about your physical appearance what would it be: I'd be thinner
If you had no committments what would you be doing: writing!
If you could have one super power what would it be: Warp-speed so I can do more in less time!
If you could start all over.... I wouldn't lie to my boyfriend and live my own life more instead of being glued to him.. so maybe, just maybe, we'd still be together right now.. (Gosh, how pathetic can you be that you still miss someone so much after not seeing them for 1 year and not being with him for almost 2..)
WRITING
Do you write stories/songs/poems? If yes, what kind? I write stories, fanfics, songs AND wrote poems..
How much have you written? A LOT! Two short stories, 1 completed fanfic, 1 I'm still working on and 1 I co-write with an amazing author! Songs, maybe 3 work-books full, poems about 12 work-books full.
What genre do you like writing about most? Love and drama.. mostly drama!
Why do you write? To use my creativity, vent and fantasize about life and 'experiencing' things I'll never do in real life.
shrinkingviolet:
Name: Jo
What time is it: 1:34 PM
THE FRUITS OF YOUR LABOR( things you can't live without)
Something important on your desk: The picture of my children that my husband took when I was in the hospital having our daughter. My son (Kevin) is snuggled in my lap, kissing his new baby sister (Katie) on the forehead.
When you sleep you wear: Nothing *blushes*
If you could afford it at the moment, you would buy: A new car
Something you don't have a lot of: Time. Money...
If your house was burning and you could only save 3 items what would they be: My children, my cats, and my computer desk with everything on it ;)
MORALS
If there were no side effects, you would enjoy being addicted to: Smoking.. Wait, I already enjoy that...
A time when you purposly hurt someone emotionally: I never knowingly hurt someone...
A time you accidentally hurt someone emotionally: When I met the Boys for the first time and forgot to ask for autographs for my best friend. It caused a rift, but we're cool now...
One person you have killed in your thoughts: My sister-in-law
FRIENDS:
Three traits you look for in a friend: Kindness, Sincerity, Sense of Humor
Who makes you laugh most often: Plumsie
A friend who you can tell anything: Plumsie
A friend you can got to for advice: Plumsie
The best piece of advice you had been given: "When it seems as though there is no way out of your problems, close your eyes, open your heart and let the Lord take over.
Two closest friends: Plumsie and Danielle
The friend who uses most of your energy: Er... My son
EGO
Your 3 best qualities: I listen, I'm humorous, and I try to find the bright side of everything
Your 3 worst qualities: I procrastinate, I smoke too much, and I'm very lazy
Describe your Ideal self: I want to be remembered as a good mother and wife. Nothing else matters but that, to me.
A comliment that makes you blush: When people tell me I'm a good writer...
You are embarassed when: Someone puts me in the center of attention
The greatest physical pain you ever endured: Recovering from my c-sections
The greatest emotional pain you ever endured: When my husband and I broke up while dating
Moment you are most ashamed of: Jumping on Nick and knocking him down *blushes*
Your best physical feature: Uh... *thinks* My eyes I guess? *shrug*
Who/What makes you happy: My children, writing, being with my Plumsie
Who/what makes you sad: Having one of my children upset or sick, war, prejudice
EMOTIONS
Emotion you hide most: Depression
The emotion you tend to experience most: Complacency
The emotion you are feeling most lately: Excitement
You have a huge amount of guilt regarding: Something in my past that I don't ever talk about to anyone
When you are angry you need: A cigarette and peace and quiet
When you are sentimental you need: Someone to hug
When you are in love you need: Someont to hug and kiss
MEMORIES
One of your most peaceful memories: When the kids started sleeping through the night and I could sleep for six hours straight!
One of your most tragic memories: Losing my grandmother
One of you rangriest memories: Watching a cat be abused
A memory that makes you laugh: One of my cats surprising my husband and I in bed one night
a memory that makes you happy: Any memory involving my children
LOVE
Something someone can say or do that you find extremely attractive: Laugh
Something someone can say or do that you find unattractive: Forget to shower
Two things appealing about people: Humor and kindness
A personality trait you find appealing: Sincerity
Your secret passion: Writing, not that it's so secret
What you enjoy most about having a committed relationship: Comfort, steadiness
RELATING
DO you have a bf/gf if yes who? I have a husband. Robert
What do you find sexy about them: His smile
What drives you crazy (in a good way) about this person: The way he gets excited over new toys we get for the kids
Describe your mate physicaly: He's.... Robert, lol
Describle your mate's personality: He tries to be the strong and silent type, but I know that there's a big cuddly teddy bear in there
You feel most attractive when: Robert tells me I'm beautiful
Favorite thing you like to see your mate wear (clothing wise don't say naked): His black jeans and red shirt...
What would you like your mate to do more of: Talk
FINALLY>>>>>>
If you had more time alone you would: Go crazy
If you had more patience you would: Keep a clean house... lol
If you could change one thing about your physical appearance what would it be: Nothing... I'm happy with me the way I am
If you had no committments what would you be doing: Writing and talking to Plumsie
If you could have one super power what would it be: Invisibility
If you could start all over.... I would do the same things again. The mistakes I made were made for a reason and have made me the person I am today, just as the hardships and problems have made me stronger.
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