I have four more episodes of Snowpiercer to watch so I'm ready for Season 2 to start on Monday, so definitely that. I also want to watch Bridgerton.
This is probably for the tv thread, but I've heard good things about Bridgerton, let me know how it is.
I wondered more about you spending hours and hours working on fanfic instead of hanging out with him or being a productive adult, more than the romantic fantasy aspect of it. If he has his own hobbies and/or likes to go out and do his own thing, that helps. I'm just basing this on my own experience of living with no one but a couple of cats. I love the freedom of being able to literally write all day if I want to without having to answer to anyone, but I always think, "I don't know how I could ever live with another human being again" LOL. I would need someone with his own nerdy hobbies who didn't ask too many questions about mine. Your Nick sounds perfect in that respect!
Haha, I went the story aspect and forgot about real life, maybe that's the fantasy I'm living out right now. Lately he's been catching up on Shameless and likes playing the MLB game on his playstation, so he's been happy to have more control of the tv. When we first started dating, I was very busy volunteering for my college's alumni association (basically helping to run a tiny non-profit since that chapter was registered as such), so we've always had our own things that we did in addition to the things we enjoyed doing together. I've stepped back on my volunteering this past year, so this is just like another thing I'm doing to fill my time in the same way as before, just more of a personal hobby than something I'm doing with other people. I've been slightly more reclusive this month now that college football is over, but he's also been going out more for the NFL and traveling for work more frequently. I think maybe after I finish this edit, I might cut back on my days that I do write since I have updates ready through Aprilish at the moment. He's a pretty happy camper if he just gets to sit and do what he likes, he's just not as into creative hobbies as much as he was when he was a kid.
And you say the cats aren't judging how you use your time, but they are always judging.