Yep, that was Now or Never. And the asteroid story is Blood Red Moon:
http://www.dreamers-sanctuary.com/vault/blood.html At first glance, it looks promising - it has a decent banner for being made way before I had a good graphics program, it has an apocalyptic Bible quote LOL... and then you click on the actual story. It has multiple first person points of view that are labeled... "Nick's POV"... "Brian's POV." *face palm* We made ourselves characters. *head desk* It has all the things that make me roll my eyes as a reader nowadays. And of course, it's unfinished. Epic fail. LOL
AC, both the site and the forum, is definitely a big success! This is the absolute best place to post, read, and discuss BSB fanfic. You can't beat that! Others have tried and failed along the way, but AC's still going strong, and that's definitely because of all the effort you and Julilly put into keeping it active and relevant.
I know what you mean about the type of stories you like, too. It's kind of the same way for me. I don't require bromance, although I do like it, but for me there's just been a lack of well-written medical drama and suspense, which are my favorite genres. Take a look at the Most Recent page - most of it is romance. I didn't read much romance even back in the day when I read all the time; a lot of the stories I read did include romance, but it was always in the context of drama, suspense, and the life-or-death situations I love. Some of these romances probably have that stuff, but if they do, they need to start out strong with it or advertise it better in their summaries so I'll click! LOL You can almost always reel me in with a good car accident or something.