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Author Topic: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?  (Read 1784 times)

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Re: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?
« Reply #60 on: June 26, 2025, 09:29:22 AM »

Update: I tried to start one yesterday. I would go through the entire process and then when I got to the very last step it just made me start all over again. I felt like all I was doing was going around in a very annoying loop. I made it on my phone so I'm going to try again on the computer, maybe I'll have more luck.
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Re: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?
« Reply #61 on: June 26, 2025, 10:10:44 AM »

Update: I tried to start one yesterday. I would go through the entire process and then when I got to the very last step it just made me start all over again. I felt like all I was doing was going around in a very annoying loop. I made it on my phone so I'm going to try again on the computer, maybe I'll have more luck.
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Re: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?
« Reply #62 on: June 26, 2025, 03:16:10 PM »

I wrote this post yesterday, but it wouldn't post.  All day, I could get the forum to load, but it would time out before my post went through.  Let's see if it works this time.

When I think of the Midwest, I always associate you guys with cheese for some reason. lol Butter and cheese.

We absolutely do love cheese, too! LOL  My friends and I always order some version of fried cheese (mozzarella sticks, cheese curds, etc.) with ranch for appetizers when we go out for happy hour.


That's good to know about discourse. Maria, Mersey and I use WhatsApp, but like google, it's just a chat, we leave it constantly going and go in and out whenever we want to say something. The only bad thing about that, is only those of us on here would be able to access it. I looked at pro-boards and it seems like it might be the best bet. I'm going to make one today, just to see how simple/complex it is and if it works, maybe we could switch to that. That might also get more people to come on board who for whatever reason no longer come here. We shall see.

Dee, Rose, and I had something similar with Google Chat when we were working on 00Carter.  It was just a running group chat.  We've since switched to group texting for just general conversation and planning for BSB trips.  I still miss the days of late night IM conversations, though.  Texting never feels quite the same, maybe because it's on a phone compared to being on the computer.

ProBoards works very similarly to this forum, so hopefully it will be fairly easy for you to get one up and running.  I'm happy to help if you need it!  The forum was down yet again earlier today, so the sooner the better.


As far as Nick and Kieran, I don't see it happening. lol maybe Nick and Roman, but I would definitely feel weird making a real person fic with Kieran because he would detest it! I think Nick and the guys are aware of fanfic and probably think it's overall weird, but okay with it. Kieran would most definitely not be. And with knowing that, I don't think I could write about him. Even though I really want to. Maybe someday. Who knows? If I ever get my BSB mojo going again. Like I said, I need them to all work together.

That's understandable .  After seeing all the criticism of RPF on Reddit, I think I would have a hard time writing it for any other celebrities.  I'm already in too deep for BSB to quit now, so it is what it is LOL.  I've learned to get over the guilt I feel about some of the things I write about the guys, telling myself they'll most likely never read them.  And if they do, that's on them.  I remember when they were asked about fanfic in that Perez Hilton interview years ago.  Nick had no clue what fanfic actually was; he talked about it spreading gossip and rumors and seemed to think it was more like tabloid stories.  Kevin had clearly come across some slash because he told Nick we write about them hooking up LOL.  As long as they steer clear of it, it's all good.  I hope you do get your BSB mojo back someday!


I did see about Nick being accused of losing too much weight and being on Ozempic.  If he is, it's up to him and not fans, that's what I don't understand.  But he looks more like someone who has lost weight through hard work.  He's done it before.

Yeah, I really don't think Nick is on Ozempic or anything similar.  Like you said, he's done this before.  He always talks about trying to get back in shape before a tour/residency, and we all know his weight tends to fluctuate.  I hate that he's being criticized instead of praised for being in shape, but it fits the media narrative of shaming celebrities who have lost weight with Ozempic.  Really, though, the particular selfie people were so concerned about was just taken at a weird angle that made his face look thinner than it really is, on top of whatever filter he may have put on it.  He looks healthy and normal in the other pics and videos that have been posted.


I've had a bit of a stressful week since getting back.  We had meetings in work about redundancies and then found out yesterday who was going.  Luckily it's not me, but I feel sorry for the people who are going to be out of a job next month.  I've worked at the company for over 20 years but doesn't mean anything when it comes to cutting costs at work.

I'm glad to hear your job is safe, but that really sucks for people who are being let go, especially if they've been with the company for a long time.  Same with your sister, Mare.  That kind of uncertainty is so stressful!
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Re: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?
« Reply #63 on: June 27, 2025, 01:51:08 PM »

Before I respond or do anything else, I wanted to post this link. I created a new forum. It’s through pro boards so if you already belong to a pro board, you’re going to have to use that password to get on. That took me awhile to figure out.
https://marescorner.freeforums.net/
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Re: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?
« Reply #64 on: June 27, 2025, 02:00:59 PM »

I’ve never had cheese curds. I do believe they have them here, but I’ve never seen that down in PA.

I get what you’re saying about it being too late for the boys. I never even thought about the weird factor until I saw the discourse. Fan fiction seems to be more mainstream now than it ever was before so the odds of them not knowing what it is are less greater than it was a decade ago.

I’m writing this on my phone because I felt the urgency to while the board was up. Warning if you see a ton of typos lol

So far pro boards does seem easy. Can people upload their own images or do I have to do it? That’s one of the things I was confused about. You can answer over there if you’d like. As we go along I might have more questions about maintenance and things like that.
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Re: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?
« Reply #65 on: June 27, 2025, 02:06:15 PM »

People can upload their own images. I think you can also upload a selection of avatars for people to choose from, but you don't have to do that.
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Re: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?
« Reply #66 on: June 27, 2025, 04:09:48 PM »

Okay. That’s good to know. Tracy said she tried to upload a picture but she couldn’t. I’ll just tell her try again.
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Re: Am I going crazy or is our thread gone?
« Reply #67 on: June 27, 2025, 09:29:58 PM »

I’ve never had cheese curds. I do believe they have them here, but I’ve never seen that down in PA.

I get what you’re saying about it being too late for the boys. I never even thought about the weird factor until I saw the discourse. Fan fiction seems to be more mainstream now than it ever was before so the odds of them not knowing what it is are less greater than it was a decade ago.

Cheese curds are good, whether they're breaded and fried or just plain lumps of cheese.  Some places around here call the fried version "cheese balls," but I didn't want that to be confused with the Cheeto kind because they're totally different (and much better).

Yeah, I never thought writing fiction about celebrities was any weirder than writing it about other people's fictional characters.  No one's getting consent for that either.  I can definitely see why said celebrities would be uncomfortable with some of the stuff people write about them, but I can also see published authors, screenwriters, etc. being uncomfortable with what people do with their characters LOL.  With RPF, the general rule of thumb is "Don't share your fics with the people they're about," which I totally agree with.  I would be mortified if I thought any of the Boys had actually read any of mine.  But you're right; fanfic in general has become a lot more mainstream than it was when we first got into it, so they might be more aware of what it actually is than they used to be.  Has anyone from Succession ever commented on fanfic?

I hope more people join the new forum so we can move the discussion there!
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